Proverbs 18:21 NLT The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences.
All of us talk to people, whether you love to talk or not. Every start of the morning, God has taught me to first decide in my heart to only speak words that would encourage, words that would help, words that would heal, words that are thankful . . . words that brings life and not death.
The drill God gave me was: to think of every person that I plan to talk to for the day, like my wife, my kids, my parents, my workmates, my classmates, my churchmates, my helpers, my clients . . . and I ask God what words should I speak to them.
I started this a long long time ago, and it has always worked for me. I pray it would also work well for you! Speak yourself out of deathly circumstances! Speak yourself into a life to the MAX! Through the help of the Holy Spirit, you can do it! Amen!